[Dream_Weaver]

This had to be one of the hardest decisions that our family made in regards to doing what was right for our child. And I am still not sure that we made the right decision. We didn't take this decision lightly--we discussed pros and cons at great length--and the BOE rule did play a part in our decision making.

In my opinion this should be a private family matter and as long as the parents and child are aware of regulations regarding future eligibilty the BOE shouldn't be a factor.