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Basically makes in unfair for other middle schoolers.

"Unfair" would mean that other kids are doing it, but yours can't. Thats not the case. It's a matter of some parents holding their kids back to better them and not worrying about what other ^^ people think. Then you have the other side that is dying to hold their kids back, but are too busy worrying about what others will think about them and would rather set back and bash the ones that did hold theirs back.