[ComfortEagle]

Let's hear it, what do you do to snag that special someone?

[BCF4L]

Well CE, this time a couple of years ago I had a girlfriend that I cared about alot. She really meant the world to me so I thought of something special to do for her for Valentines Day. So what I done was order 2 dozen roses. One dozen I had sitting on my dining room table and the other dozen I had the pedals spread out all over the dining room floor which is also where my front door is. So they stretched from my front door to the table. I also had hersheys chocolate kisses spread out with the rose pedals. Wrapped around the vase of roses on the table was a huge white stuffed gorilla that she loved. Around the Gorilla's neck was a necklace that she was wanting. On both sides of the centerpiece (roses and gorilla) were candles. I had the dining room lights dimmed and had the candles lit. I can't cook so I went to KFC (a place she likes pretty good) and got chicken, mashed potatoes, and rolls. So we both sat there and had dinner together. And still to this day, when I have a girlfriend, she always tries to make them jealous by bringing that up to them.

[crazytaxidriver]

That's a good one if you already got the girl BCF4L.

CE. If you are trying to get the girl. Then there are a few things you must remember. Nice Guys finish last, and Buttheads, last a week. The trick is to find a happy medium.. Let her know that you like her but you aren't going to put up with a lot of the shit they put you through. Don't be afraid to go shopping with her and let her enjoy herself, occasionally buy something for her. Now when she wants to go out with her friends say well ok, since you are doin that I'm goin to go to a buddies house and hang out. Now while she is out, don't call her. Let her call you. If neither one of ya call don't get disheartened. She's probably just having a good time. Now if she gave you a time she would be home then call her 10 minutes after that time, when she answers just be like, well i was just checking on ya. When ya get home give me a call- if she lives by herself then say do you want me to come over later, if she says yes then you're in.. If not then don't worry there is always tomorrow. IF she lives with her parents be like, well I'll give ya a call sometime tomorrow. That's when she'll either say well come see me, or she'll say.. well ok.. heheh that's when it starts to go good for ya..

The trick is, be in control, but don't be demanding. Be nice but not a pushover., and most of all, when you get to the home plate, ask what she wants to you to do, don't go in like jackhammer and leave.. They don;t like that..

If ya need anything else just pm me lol

[4leaf]

The master spills his secrets.

[APftWaHKiC]

Was he wanting advice on how to get laid? I thought it was more along the lines of getting her to go out with him...Ah well..bout time a girl answered. ANYway..you should know that unless this girl is very different from most...she WILL expect you to make most of the moves. She'll want you to call her first...ask her out...etc. And you CAN do these things without seeming like an over eager puppy. Also..most girls freak out if you don't call them when you say you will. They find "clues" that you don't like them everywhere. So if you say you'll call..CALL. And do not be overpossessive or underpossessive for that matter. Like CTD said..find a happy medium. I know this has been mostly rambling..but it would help if we knew something about the girl's personality or the situation...

[crazytaxidriver]

The master spills his secrets.

I can't spill all my secrets or I'd be out of a job lol

[SuperMario]

Haha just go read mens health magizine. Then go to howtobeaplayer.com.....all of this will tell you the secret. hock:

[crazytaxidriver]

I think he wants to be sincere not a player Mario lol

[SuperMario]

haha i know but a chick doesnt dig a sincere man. They dig players when your my age lol

later in life, they dig two things: Financial Stability and Whether you could be a good husband and father to the kids.

[Beef]

That was some good help though CTD.....I might have to use some of that


Does it hurt you because of your...ummmm....lets just say disability? :twisted:

[crazytaxidriver]

That was some good help though CTD.....I might have to use some of that


Does it hurt you because of your...ummmm....lets just say disability? :twisted:

:cough:prick:Cough: I make good with what I got to work with lol

[Beef]

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[crazytaxidriver]

Yeah Yeah llol

[BlueGrassGirl]

Is it really that bad CTD that we have to continue this on every thread...

Anyway CE, here is my opinion on what works...CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE and more CONFIDENCE...and be yourself...be original...

Don't fall all over a girl and do whatever you think she wants and what you think will please her...that wont work...

you got to find some kind of balance...kind of play hard to get...read body language...see if she is into you...

I could go into more detail...

[crazytaxidriver]

Beef started it lol

[BCF4L]

The way that I won my girlfriend over is just plain and simply being an asshole. I'm not saying beat her and cuss her, but just act like you really don't care what happens in the relationship. When a girl tells you to call her, don't go home then call. Wait a day or two. Make them wonder if you are going to call or not. It always works. Like CTD said, when they say they are going out, just say well I'm going out too.
See with me I have always been a jealous type person. But with my girl I'm with now, when she says she is going out or going to do something then I say well if you're going to go do something then I'm getting with my friends tonight. Needless to say she never goes out cuz shes always afraid of what I'm going to do. So that's a good thing.

[ComfortEagle]

VALENTINE'S DAY SUCKS!!!


but the day after is pretty good

[BCF4L]

Yea knowing that you still have all your money in your wallet instead of blowing it on some dumb gifts. lol

[panthermania]

LOL

[APftWaHKiC]

What BGG said...confidence. Oh and by acting like you don't care and not calling when you say you will..you're putting that girl's friends in the way of a LOT of whining. Girls worry about everything...quit with the freakin' mind games and tell them straight up if you like them or not.

[BCF4L]

No never do that. It gives the girl the upper hand. I have been around the game long enough to do exactly what it takes to win a girl over. I have tried many ways and I have now conquered. LOL

[crazytaxidriver]

Conquered you say? Hmm..

[BlueGrassGirl]

bcf4l, I am sorry to tell you that what you do will not work in the long run...not if you got a smart girl who cares about herself and has confidence in herself.

[ComfortEagle]

Oy vey! This thread helps none.

[crazytaxidriver]

Tell the girl how you feel about her. Tell her if you care, but don't tell her you love her until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are willing to give everything for this girl. But don' be afraid to tell her that you like her, and tell hher you want to know how she feels.. but make her be honest.. If she doesn't feel the same way then leave her. cause it probably won't work out. If she say she needs time, but it takes longer than about 2 weeks, then she is seeing someone else

[SuperMario]

CE just watch the movie HITCH. Find a date doctor! haha

But my advice is very complicated. Like everyone said, dont give her everything she wants or dont try to please every second. Those times will come within time. Be sweet and caring once every month just to let her know you care. Be confindent on everything. Never let a woman think that your not certain or she will feel uncertain about you. Always have a sense of humor. Say things that makes her laugh, make sure shes not laughing at you though. The first date should consist of just having fun and getting to know one another. Dont make it a serious thing by taking her out to a big resturant. Take her to a night club, or something erotic. Play it cool on the first date and make sure you dont make a move too soon. She will think of you as being a player and soon will heading out the door and with another guy. Once you've got her, wait on her call. Give her your number that night. If she likes you, she'll call. If she gives you her number, dont call the very next day. She'll take you as being a person who has nothing to do. You dont want that. You want her to think that she is nothing but another girl to you and she should feel special to have your company. The second date, take her out dinner. Have a tie and a sports jacket in the back. She will find that sexy because she'll think of you as being a business man. Women dig that one. Talk to her and never let the awkward silence come along during the date. Play it cool again. Walk her to her door and tell her you had a goodnight. This part gets tricky. The kiss will come into play if she doesnt seem to anxious to get into her house. Read her body language. If it doesn't, dont get your hopes up. The next date it will happen. The next date should be somewhere with only the two of you, say dinner at your house?...but wait again before you ask her on another date. The rest after this will be history. Three dates wont get you in, but it would really put you on her A-list. Just keep confindent and mix things up where she wont predict your every move. Smooth sailing from there.

This is a long one, but CE needs some help lol haha

[ComfortEagle]

Who's CE?

[SuperMario]

comfort eagle....i couldve sworn that it was that guy would posted the topic....but my bad...i didnt know godfather.

[APftWaHKiC]

Need I remind everyone that I'm a girl and therefore know what I'm talking about? Girls do NOT like feeling uncertain about a guy's feelings. When you play around like that she's going to think something's wrong. She'll mope..she'll cry..she'll get depressed. Then she'll decide she doesn't need someone who makes her feel that way and can't be straight up. Finally...she moves on. And you're left out int he cold because you didn't have the balls...or the brains...whichever to tell her if you like her or not.

[crazytaxidriver]

If you are looking for a relationship then that is a good start, but if you dont' want a relatioship, then if you aren't in after three days give me a call.