I Have To Get This Off My Chest...

01-15-2006, 02:49 AM

I'm sure many of you don't want to know this but I'm in a wonderful relationship with someone very special. I haven't told a lot of people but I wanted to tell my BGR family. The way this person makes me feel is unexplainable and I love every second I spend with them, they're truely amazing. :loveya: :bounce:

How many others are currently in a relationship? ( I put this as a rant because I really didn't know what to put..lol..sorry guys)

DTfan · 01-15-2006, 02:55 AM

I'm also in a wonderful realationship with somone I love more than life itself...I'd give up everything to be with this person, as I pretty mich have already. They make me feel like I can touch the sky and that I can accomplish anything. They are my inspiration and I honestly don't know what I would do without them. They are my everything, my world and all I'll ever need.

**Cali** · 01-15-2006, 03:01 AM

Oh wow. Like I think I'm gonna vomit haha. People in love. Makes me sick. Congratulations to both of you. Unfortunately I just got out of an amazing relationship and got my heart crushed.

01-15-2006, 03:01 AM

DTfan Wrote:I'm also in a wonderful realationship with somone I love more than life itself...I'd give up everything to be with this person, as I pretty mich have already. They make me feel like I can touch the sky and that I can accomplish anything. They are my inspiration and I honestly don't know what I would do without them. They are my everything, my world and all I'll ever need.

:Sad04: They must be a lucky person DT.

01-15-2006, 03:02 AM

Cali Wrote:Oh wow. Like I think I'm gonna vomit haha. People in love. Makes me sick. Congratulations to both of you. Unfortunately I just got out of an amazing relationship and got my heart crushed.

Cali you always say ''Eww I think I just threw up in my mouth'' when you see us...lol..know what I'm talking about..hehe

**Cali** · 01-15-2006, 03:04 AM

Haha yeah..and thinking about it makes me want to um throw up in my mouth! Well I talked to *** today!!!!!!!!!! In person!!!!!!!!

DTfan · 01-15-2006, 03:06 AM

Awww Cali it's okay, like I told you before you'll find someone thats 10 times better that will want to and try to give you the moon, the sun and the stars...someone who when oyu say jump they will say how high and not think twice about it but most of all someone who will love you for you and treat oyu the way you deserve...it'll come when you least expect it...TRUST me I know! Who knew the day I rear ended someone at the lake would be the day I found the love of my life...

**15thRegionCrazy** · 01-15-2006, 03:10 AM

I'm in a relationship.. he's great.. well most of the time lol

**Cali** · 01-15-2006, 03:12 AM

Awww and I'm gonna be your maid of honor! Yay! lol

Thanks for the encouragement DTfan - shewwww, I'm just miserable right now. Completely heartbroken...and it's honestly not getting any better.

DTfan · 01-15-2006, 03:16 AM

I have faith that you'll find someone...

**Cali** · 01-15-2006, 03:25 AM

One day.

I keep hearing this saying that everything happens for a reason...maybe I should listen to it.

MR.INCREDIBLE · 01-15-2006, 04:27 AM

DTfan Wrote:Who knew the day I rear ended someone at the lake would be the day I found the love of my life...

Ok, seriously, maybe we should just take your keys away from you Tongue

oliceLig :omg: Smile

just kidding, oh yeah back on topic, I am married, does that count as a relationship. Wink

KentuckyHillBilly5321 · 01-15-2006, 12:06 PM

Enlightening thread . . .

I didn't know 15th was a girl (at least I think)

I am married--and let me tell you this--RUN. And RUN now. Quit hanging yourself up on one person (at least until you are 30). You are missing NOTHING. And-it is very unlikely that you are going to know who the love of your life is when you are 17, 18, 19, 20 years old. . .. .

01-15-2006, 12:38 PM

KentuckyHillBilly5321 Wrote:Enlightening thread . . .

I didn't know 15th was a girl (at least I think)

I am married--and let me tell you this--RUN. And RUN now. Quit hanging yourself up on one person (at least until you are 30). You are missing NOTHING. And-it is very unlikely that you are going to know who the love of your life is when you are 17, 18, 19, 20 years old. . .. .

No, I know this person is. You can tell, everyone can tell..lol..'m going to enjoy what I have now because in a couple months we'll be living together and thats when the real test starts. But I think we'll be ok because we both love each other and we've been through some pretty bad times.

DTfan · 01-15-2006, 12:48 PM

Awww Balla, I'm seeing a side of you I haven't seen that much before....they are turly a lucky person to have someone as amazing as you!

KentuckyHillBilly5321 · 01-15-2006, 01:45 PM

BallaBaby Wrote:No, I know this person is. You can tell, everyone can tell..lol..'m going to enjoy what I have now because in a couple months we'll be living together and thats when the real test starts. But I think we'll be ok because we both love each other and we've been through some pretty bad times.

Thats great. But think of it like this--I love my wife. And sometimes, I even like her a little bit. But there is a huge difference (IMO) between living with someone and actually having a real obligation to them. Just remember--you can get out--free and easy until the ring is on the finger. But afterwards--you are talking time, money and a LOT of pain.

Reizvoll · 01-15-2006, 02:13 PM

I vote this the wierdest topic that has ever been read by anyone on Bluegrassrivals.com.

01-15-2006, 02:16 PM

I'm going through the pain part right now, but it's too hard to explain, trust me..lol..I'm actually looking forward to putting the ring on my finger, it's been discussed before but you never know what will happen between now and then. I only hope that we stay together and make it through every obstacle that presents itself in our relationship. Currently there is one big obstacle in our way that has us both kind of discouraged, but we can only be there for one another and support each other because we both know we can get through this.

01-15-2006, 02:23 PM

Reizvoll Wrote:I vote this the wierdest topic that has ever been read by anyone on Bluegrassrivals.com.

The weirdest topic to tell people about your relationship and ask them about theirs, then actually get advice from married people? I take it that your single or never been inlove?

**thetribe** · 01-15-2006, 02:23 PM

I'm in a relationship.
VERY rocky right now, alot to work through but I think that it will happen and be worth it all.

DTfan · 01-15-2006, 02:26 PM

Balla there's no doubt in my mind that you and your significant other will make it through whatever obstacles you are facing right now and when you make it through it will be more than worth it.

**thetribe** · 01-15-2006, 02:33 PM

Balla and DT, I think that you both have wonderful relationships with your significant others and all relationships face trials and tribulations. Time will fix alot of it and as soon as it does then both of your relationships will take off and everyone can start making more wonderful memories. I know the situations that you are both in and coming from an outsider, I know that it is hard. My situation is pretty similar to yours Balla but just hang in there. All of it will be worked out soon enough. Best of luck to you.

And Cali, don't let something like that get you down. You are going to find someone much, much, MUCH better than that. Remember, when you find the one that is worth the heartbreak, they will be the very one who won't cause it.

Basketballer · 01-15-2006, 02:40 PM

Balla, you've been threw this before, you know what it takes..You and your person just hang in there and im sure it will work out for both of you, or atleast I hope it does....Good luck, (even though I dont act like it sometimes) I'm very happy for you

01-15-2006, 02:42 PM

Basketballer Wrote:Balla, you've been threw this before, you know what it takes..You and your person just hang in there and im sure it will work out for both of you, or atleast I hope it does....Good luck, (even though I dont act like it sometimes) I'm very happy for you

Thanks

**SE04** · 01-15-2006, 10:33 PM

im in a wonderful relationship with an amazing guy. Only thing i have to say is when your not lookin for love you'll find it that's what happened with me and i've never been happier.

football05 · 01-15-2006, 10:45 PM

senioreagle I agree when your not looking it smacks you right in the face....

I got out of a relationship 3 months ago and I thgouth I was in love but come to find out I was wrong BIG TIME....We dated a year and 5 months and she broke it to me she loved me but wasnt in love...and now she is in a relationship with some guy from alaska which he goes to morehead and they have bene dating like a month and a week and she is saying how much she loves him and she is wanting to get married to him lol...i think its funny bc its so CHILDISH im glad im out of that relationship....but Ill stop ranting for now sorry everyone

**Cali** · 01-16-2006, 12:37 AM

Well another day, another wound on my heart. How long will this go on? Could someone PLEASE tell me, because I'm SO, SO ready to let go. But yeah - congrats to everyone else.

DTfan · 01-16-2006, 12:41 AM

Awww Cali... just try not to think about it...keep yourself busy.

**Cali** · 01-16-2006, 12:44 AM

Haha DT, it's hard when you're living in Hi Hat. What else do I have to do other than think about my broken heart?!

DTfan · 01-16-2006, 01:04 AM

Well true....but that's when you bury your head in books...like me...lol