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...and what's wrong with trying to gain an advantage for your kid, as long as it's within the rules? It's why we send them to camps, work with them on the side, study with them, take them to games, get them certain types equipment to use, etc., all to try and gain an advantage over their counterparts.

i do all the above for mine too.

did i say there was anything wrong with it? i was just offering counters to everyone about the tax issue.and the maturity issue which holds no water in my book.the only thing i said was wrong was all the lame excuses people use other than the real reason behind it.