[BaseballMan]

"I am unwilling that any should perish...I came not to destroy but to save..."
Almost sounds like you desire for the "fools" to be shown their folly.

"The Lord is...not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (II Peter 3:9)

That's the actual reference. And the Lord is willing that none should perish. He even sent His only Son to die, so that we could be saved by faith in Him. However, many will not follow, and many will follow their own way. Many will not believe, and many will turn away. I don't desire for anyone to be on the judgement seat of God, but would rather hope they see their folly.