[basketballfan000]

That's true you are right, but sometimes if you instill in them what is important and what is not at an early age, they are more likely to take that into their teens. Their personality may make it hard, but they know from you have taught them at an early age that it is just simply not important what other people say about you. I guess you can never tell what they will think when they get older though can you? haha..

I will leave it at this. I have a child that lets everything that someones says to tell them bother them and I PROMISE you that is not the way they were raised or myself and it makes me crazy that they do CARE about what other people say. I have said to them a THOUSAND time who cares what they think and still can not undersand why they do, BUT THEY DO. That is the point i am trying to make. If you think that you can control EVERY behavior and personality of your child then i hope you are bette then me. Good Luck!