[toussaints]

I love the discussion so far. I think Gut made a significant point that this isn't just your call now that you're engaged. A lot goes into a decision like this

What do I value more? Money, opportunity, loyalty, security... Is the risk worth it? No matter what you choose, you'll be passing up on at least 3 other opportunities.

For me, money hasn't been an issue because I always saved what I made and I don't need much to get by and my girlfriend is the same way. But if children makes their way into our lives, then money will be an issue we have to face.

Right now, I'd take the college job. The school might promote one of the assistants and they'd be in a great spot. Because most FBS programs have a quick trigger, if I fail then I could always revisit teaching and coaching high school. If I succeed, then sky is the limit. The reward is worth the risk.

I look at the state powerhouse and I see a coach being fired after a solid playoff run. I see the potential for big problems in that culture. I look at the big local school and I ask "why take a step back?"