[BlueGrassGirl]

I with you.
Getting married and having kids was the best thing that ever happened to me.
The three most precious people in my life are my wife and two boys. Sometimes I wonder where I would be if I hadn't met the greatest addition to my life, my wife. Being married has given my life new meaning and a fulfillment that I had never experienced before. Waking up every morning to three beautiful happy people that love you and admire you ,more than life, is just magical.

They are my inspiration in everything I do in my life.

Before I was married my life seemed to lack purpose. I didn't have any goals. I didn't have any college degrees. I was actually almost ready to fail out of college. I was on academic probation and barely had a 1.0 GPA. Since getting married I have completed 2 undergraduate degrees and brought my final undergraduate GPA from a 1.0 to a 3.0. Now I'm in my final semester of a masters program in computer science where I have a GPA of a 4.0.. I plan to enroll in a PHD program this fall.

I feel all this inspiration to excel and to be successful was a result from my marriage and the addition of kids. Having people around me that care for me, believe in me, and trust in me, and being able to share those same qualities with them has gave my life new meaning and purpose that I had never experienced. I want to succeed to for them.

It's a great feeling having a family, where you do and experience everything as a whole. The experience of watching the kids take thier first steps, to saying thier first words, to watching them score thier first goal, to seeing them thier face light with a smile just because you are in thier presence is a feeling thats unmatched.

Ya, the potential may had been there for me to excel in school and life in general if I would applied myself. But something was missing from my life and I simply lack the desire and inspiration. What was missing was my own family.

I would like to thank my wife for supporting me, believing in me, inspiring me and loving me. I couldn't imagine my life without you and the kids. You have, along with the kids have helped make my dreams become a reality.

You are a unique, smart, intelligent, beautiful and caring
women and one hell of a mom to boot. Any man would have been fortunate to marry a women like you.

Wow..I don't know what to say..other than I love you and I'm so thankful to have you in my life. I couldn't imagine not being married to you... I truly enjoy the relationship and the life we have together with our 2 precious baby boys...


A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966