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I've never heard a gay person say they chose to be gay. 100% of the ones I've talked to say they were born that way, and knew they were different from the very beginning. Since you say you work with some, directly ask them if they chose to be gay or were they born that way. I'll bet you 100% will tell you the same thing that gays have told me.

Whether or not people choose to be gay is a tough subject. In some cases I'm sure people are born "wired" different than normal. And yes, I believe homosexuality is abnormal.

Some children seem gay at very early ages and are always in same sex relationships. Some people are heterosexual for years and then "discover" they are, want or choose to be gay. Some people are gay for long periods of time and then want or choose to be straight.

Even though I believe humans have the ability choose their sexuality, I have seen some individuals that always seemed destined to be gay.

I can remember reading a stat once that claimed that most gay males were raised in a single mother family. Not having a father has nothing to do with how you were born.

We all have urges, some fight those urges for a lifetime because they understand morality. Some don't let morality get between them and their urges.

IMO their are several factors that lead to someone being gay. IMO their are rare cases (at birth) when not only are there physical things awry, but emotional ones too...Very Rare.

To blanket all gay people as being born gay don't float with me.

Disclaimer...I DO NOT HATE GAY PEOPLE.