[TheRealVille]

One thing I will say.... I work with some openly gay people, both men and women. And they don't go to the gay pride rallies or their not going to Chick-Fli-A today so they can post a picutre of them kissing on Facebook.

They do their own thing, not because they are ashamed or embarrsed about being gay. If you ask them, they will gladly tell you. But when they tell you they are gay, the next thing they say is "I'm not gay to get attention." They tell you that's the life they've chosen and they don't want to special treatment.

I've never heard a gay person say they chose to be gay. 100% of the ones I've talked to say they were born that way, and knew they were different from the very beginning. Since you say you work with some, directly ask them if they chose to be gay or were they born that way. I'll bet you 100% will tell you the same thing that gays have told me.