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05-29-2025, 10:22 AM
What are the traits of a narcissist?
People with NPD expect to get special treatment.
They exaggerate their own smarts, success, power, and looks.
The lack of empathy leads them to take advantage of people, with no regrets.
Narcissists may be extremely jealous and ultra-sensitive.
Because they tend to be very thin-skinned, they may angrily lash out at any criticism or push-back.
Narcissists also may lash out when they feel like they’re not getting special treatment.
Underneath all of these traits is a deep sense of insecurity.
And — no big surprise, when you consider all these traits — narcissists may find it super-difficult to have healthy relationships, and have loads of trouble at work.
Is this anyone we know?
People with NPD expect to get special treatment.
They exaggerate their own smarts, success, power, and looks.
The lack of empathy leads them to take advantage of people, with no regrets.
Narcissists may be extremely jealous and ultra-sensitive.
Because they tend to be very thin-skinned, they may angrily lash out at any criticism or push-back.
Narcissists also may lash out when they feel like they’re not getting special treatment.
Underneath all of these traits is a deep sense of insecurity.
And — no big surprise, when you consider all these traits — narcissists may find it super-difficult to have healthy relationships, and have loads of trouble at work.
Is this anyone we know?
(05-28-2025, 07:41 PM)Appalachian Cat Wrote: Another reckless recruit added for Boyd County from Lawrence. I’m hearing that Lawrence is making the call to the KHSAA. Closer and closer to the KHSAA Investigation. I can’t wait!
PoopFan the hypocrite! You should call Jason Mays right now and apologize for cowardly recording him! You are and have been doing the same thing. lol
You know that Jesse Wallace will be taking over the team next year and your kid is gone. Surely someone out there in the county is smart enough to see what you are doing…. This Year and the 26/27 season will be a disaster.
At present, the sole investigation underway concerns the video of Ashland Dotson in Russell's gymnasium conducting a tryout for Neel two days prior to his enrollment at Ashland.
Jason Mays should issue an apology to former players for criticizing them in effort to recruit other athletes in the 16th region.
I do not understand why you keep implying that I am involved in what is happening in Boyd County. Even though you appear to be aware of the situation in both Boyd County and Lawrence County, you come across as a know-it-all.
(05-29-2025, 10:22 AM)Ky1976 Wrote: What are the traits of a narcissist?
People with NPD expect to get special treatment.
They exaggerate their own smarts, success, power, and looks.
The lack of empathy leads them to take advantage of people, with no regrets.
Narcissists may be extremely jealous and ultra-sensitive.
Because they tend to be very thin-skinned, they may angrily lash out at any criticism or push-back.
Narcissists also may lash out when they feel like they’re not getting special treatment.
Underneath all of these traits is a deep sense of insecurity.
And — no big surprise, when you consider all these traits — narcissists may find it super-difficult to have healthy relationships, and have loads of trouble at work.
Is this anyone we know?
Indeed, it provides a detailed description of you, embodying the precise definition of what was articulated in your example describing yourself. Congratulations! Acknowledging the need for help is the first step toward recovery. You may be well on your way to receiving effective treatment!
05-29-2025, 11:05 AM
Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
05-29-2025, 01:50 PM
(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
05-29-2025, 02:18 PM
(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:If your not the coach, how can you actually determine what occurs during a transfer process?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
(05-29-2025, 10:24 AM)HOOPFAN Wrote:Nobody tagged HOOPFAN in the comment.(05-28-2025, 07:41 PM)Appalachian Cat Wrote: Another reckless recruit added for Boyd County from Lawrence. I’m hearing that Lawrence is making the call to the KHSAA. Closer and closer to the KHSAA Investigation. I can’t wait!
PoopFan the hypocrite! You should call Jason Mays right now and apologize for cowardly recording him! You are and have been doing the same thing. lol
You know that Jesse Wallace will be taking over the team next year and your kid is gone. Surely someone out there in the county is smart enough to see what you are doing…. This Year and the 26/27 season will be a disaster.
At present, the sole investigation underway concerns the video of Ashland Dotson in Russell's gymnasium conducting a tryout for Neel two days prior to his enrollment at Ashland.
Jason Mays should issue an apology to former players for criticizing them in effort to recruit other athletes in the 16th region.
I do not understand why you keep implying that I am involved in what is happening in Boyd County. Even though you appear to be aware of the situation in both Boyd County and Lawrence County, you come across as a know-it-all.
(05-29-2025, 10:22 AM)Ky1976 Wrote: What are the traits of a narcissist?
People with NPD expect to get special treatment.
They exaggerate their own smarts, success, power, and looks.
The lack of empathy leads them to take advantage of people, with no regrets.
Narcissists may be extremely jealous and ultra-sensitive.
Because they tend to be very thin-skinned, they may angrily lash out at any criticism or push-back.
Narcissists also may lash out when they feel like they’re not getting special treatment.
Underneath all of these traits is a deep sense of insecurity.
And — no big surprise, when you consider all these traits — narcissists may find it super-difficult to have healthy relationships, and have loads of trouble at work.
Is this anyone we know?
Indeed, it provides a detailed description of you, embodying the precise definition of what was articulated in your example describing yourself. Congratulations! Acknowledging the need for help is the first step toward recovery. You may be well on your way to receiving effective treatment!
(05-29-2025, 02:18 PM)4 Quarters Wrote:This guy has been ranting for years—at least 4-5 seasons and counting. Here’s a little history lesson A-Town is I repeat 7x regional champion. This all started with him going after Coach A, but Pete wouldn’t listen. Then it shifted to Jason Mays and that infamous audio recording that ultimately led to Mays’ firing.(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:If your not the coach, how can you actually determine what occurs during a transfer process?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
Now, Coach Bonner & staff working kids out at another schools gym and kids are transferring to Ashland -- Last two regional titles came from The County losing two stars because of Ashland's “greener grass”.
Somehow, he bullied his way onto the bench, only to be removed later by Fraley’s son-in-law, the soon-to-be head coach.
Hopefully, the new recruits Boyd County has brought in can finally bring home a title—just like the last time, when it took a recruit from Ohio to get it done.
05-29-2025, 04:33 PM
(05-29-2025, 03:06 PM)Ky1976 Wrote:(05-29-2025, 10:24 AM)HOOPFAN Wrote:Nobody tagged HOOPFAN in the comment.(05-28-2025, 07:41 PM)Appalachian Cat Wrote: Another reckless recruit added for Boyd County from Lawrence. I’m hearing that Lawrence is making the call to the KHSAA. Closer and closer to the KHSAA Investigation. I can’t wait!
PoopFan the hypocrite! You should call Jason Mays right now and apologize for cowardly recording him! You are and have been doing the same thing. lol
You know that Jesse Wallace will be taking over the team next year and your kid is gone. Surely someone out there in the county is smart enough to see what you are doing…. This Year and the 26/27 season will be a disaster.
At present, the sole investigation underway concerns the video of Ashland Dotson in Russell's gymnasium conducting a tryout for Neel two days prior to his enrollment at Ashland.
Jason Mays should issue an apology to former players for criticizing them in effort to recruit other athletes in the 16th region.
I do not understand why you keep implying that I am involved in what is happening in Boyd County. Even though you appear to be aware of the situation in both Boyd County and Lawrence County, you come across as a know-it-all.
(05-29-2025, 10:22 AM)Ky1976 Wrote: What are the traits of a narcissist?
People with NPD expect to get special treatment.
They exaggerate their own smarts, success, power, and looks.
The lack of empathy leads them to take advantage of people, with no regrets.
Narcissists may be extremely jealous and ultra-sensitive.
Because they tend to be very thin-skinned, they may angrily lash out at any criticism or push-back.
Narcissists also may lash out when they feel like they’re not getting special treatment.
Underneath all of these traits is a deep sense of insecurity.
And — no big surprise, when you consider all these traits — narcissists may find it super-difficult to have healthy relationships, and have loads of trouble at work.
Is this anyone we know?
Indeed, it provides a detailed description of you, embodying the precise definition of what was articulated in your example describing yourself. Congratulations! Acknowledging the need for help is the first step toward recovery. You may be well on your way to receiving effective treatment!
(05-29-2025, 02:18 PM)4 Quarters Wrote:This guy has been ranting for years—at least 4-5 seasons and counting. Here’s a little history lesson A-Town is I repeat 7x regional champion. This all started with him going after Coach A, but Pete wouldn’t listen. Then it shifted to Jason Mays and that infamous audio recording that ultimately led to Mays’ firing.(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:If your not the coach, how can you actually determine what occurs during a transfer process?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
Now, Coach Bonner & staff working kids out at another schools gym and kids are transferring to Ashland -- Last two regional titles came from The County losing two stars because of Ashland's “greener grass”.
Somehow, he bullied his way onto the bench, only to be removed later by Fraley’s son-in-law, the soon-to-be head coach.
Hopefully, the new recruits Boyd County has brought in can finally bring home a title—just like the last time, when it took a recruit from Ohio to get it done.
Here is the actual history lesson: Ashland has been to achieve success with local students. They have not succeeded in the past five or six years. It is unclear what misunderstanding or inability prevents you from recognizing this reality.
I cannot comment on anyone targeting Coach A, as I have never encountered such rhetoric. However, I have of parents of Deboard's and Smith's attempting to influence decisions within the program, but Coach A was not have any of it.
I am uncertain who would subject themselves to bullying on a high school bench. Principals are responsible for hiring staff at every school, and assistant coaches do not have the authority to hire or fire anyone. Your lack of understanding on this matter reflects poorly on your credibility.
05-29-2025, 04:46 PM
(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:So, serious question....you really think a kid from Huntington Prep, and a kid from Louisa decided to move to Boyd after they lost several starters, without ANY influence from anyone in Boyds program?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
05-29-2025, 10:49 PM
(05-29-2025, 04:46 PM)Fanman Wrote:Well Coach Bonner and his staff was seen working out the 2 kids from Huntington and Woods kid from Lawerence at Catlettsburg elementary school but the dads of each child decided they couldn’t run over Bonner and staff so they went to The County to fit in with HOOPFAN.(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:So, serious question....you really think a kid from Huntington Prep, and a kid from Louisa decided to move to Boyd after they lost several starters, without ANY influence from anyone in Boyds program?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
(05-29-2025, 04:46 PM)Fanman Wrote:(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:So, serious question....you really think a kid from Huntington Prep, and a kid from Louisa decided to move to Boyd after they lost several starters, without ANY influence from anyone in Boyds program?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
I do not believe so. Coach has consistently demonstrated integrity as both a coach and an individual. He manages a reputable program everywhere he has been, and I am certain that the appeal lies in that, along with the facilities and opportunities available at Boyd County
We are all familiar with Ashland actively recruiting players from other programs in the area. Having known coach for over 20 plus years, I can attest that he has never engaged in the questionable practices attributed to the APB staff when it comes to recruitment other coach players. He is more honorable man than they are.
(05-29-2025, 02:18 PM)4 Quarters Wrote:(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:If your not the coach, how can you actually determine what occurs during a transfer process?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
I presume you are referring to audio and video determining the events or outcomes of a transfer/recruit?
05-30-2025, 11:25 AM
Hoopfan has learned that Boyd keeps choking in the region tournament every year and realized his son couldn't get it done on his own so he had to recruit kids to help his baby get it done...
05-30-2025, 12:18 PM
(05-30-2025, 11:13 AM)HOOPFAN Wrote:The social media audio and video is trash.(05-29-2025, 04:46 PM)Fanman Wrote:(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:So, serious question....you really think a kid from Huntington Prep, and a kid from Louisa decided to move to Boyd after they lost several starters, without ANY influence from anyone in Boyds program?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
I do not believe so. Coach has consistently demonstrated integrity as both a coach and an individual. He manages a reputable program everywhere he has been, and I am certain that the appeal lies in that, along with the facilities and opportunities available at Boyd County
We are all familiar with Ashland actively recruiting players from other programs in the area. Having known coach for over 20 plus years, I can attest that he has never engaged in the questionable practices attributed to the APB staff when it comes to recruitment other coach players. He is more honorable man than they are.
(05-29-2025, 02:18 PM)4 Quarters Wrote:(05-29-2025, 01:50 PM)HOOPFAN Wrote:If your not the coach, how can you actually determine what occurs during a transfer process?(05-29-2025, 11:05 AM)Fanman Wrote: Boyd people accuse Ashland of bringing in talent over their own kids, then they turn around and do the same thing. I dont get it....if you cant beat em, join em?
I believe you are confusing two players transferring with the coaching staff at Ashland actively recruiting. The KHSAA investigations involving audio and now video evidence of them being caught engaging in such activities.
My stance always been that there is a significant difference between coaches pursuing your player and the player independently making that decision. These are not the same thing.
I presume you are referring to audio and video determining the events or outcomes of a transfer/recruit?
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(05-29-2025, 10:22 AM)Ky1976 Wrote: What are the traits of a narcissist?
People with NPD expect to get special treatment.
They exaggerate their own smarts, success, power, and looks.
The lack of empathy leads them to take advantage of people, with no regrets.
Narcissists may be extremely jealous and ultra-sensitive.
Because they tend to be very thin-skinned, they may angrily lash out at any criticism or push-back.
Narcissists also may lash out when they feel like they’re not getting special treatment.
Underneath all of these traits is a deep sense of insecurity.
And — no big surprise, when you consider all these traits — narcissists may find it super-difficult to have healthy relationships, and have loads of trouble at work.
Is this anyone we know?
It is a carbon copy blueprint for a frequent poster on here but I won’t mentioned the name except that it starts with an H and ends with a N.
lol
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