[KentuckyHillBilly5321]

Okay--here it is

If you are not married already--

Who actually wants to get married?

I love my wife and all--but I think that we would like each other more if we were not married . . . . .

So---who actually wants to do this to yourself?

[Tomcat68]

I don't know to be honest. It would be nice, but it doesn't mean nearly as much now as it did in the olden days.

[15thRegionCrazy]

I want to get married .. in a few years though

[SE04]

i want to , but it will prolly be a couple more yrs .

[Midee1]

The real question is who in their right mind would want to get married?
















BTW I'm 36, been married 14 years and have 3 kids ages 18,10 and 8. So this means i'm not in my right mind.

[KentuckyHillBilly5321]

The real question is who in their right mind would want to get married?
















BTW I'm 36, been married 14 years and have 3 kids ages 18,10 and 8. So this means i'm not in my right mind.

This may be the statement of the day!

I was not in my right mind that day--and I haven't been able to get back there.

I should have listened to Coach Rash . . . . .

[OU_Bruiser]

Marriage is a while away but i think im gonna hold off.....lol

[Pirate Pal]

It will be 15 years of marriage for me th 16th of this month. We have 3 beautiful daughters. I honestly have to say that I really like being married.




Now, ask that same question to him and who knows what his answer will be.


:insane: <--------probably this since he lives in a house with 4 females..

[OU_Bruiser]

It will be 15 years of marriage for me th 16th of this month. We have 3 beautiful daughters. I honestly have to say that I really like being married.




Now, ask that same question to him and who knows what his answer will be.


:insane: <--------probably this since he lives in a house with 4 females..

LOL

[imported_torQQue]

It will be 15 years of marriage for me th 16th of this month. We have 3 beautiful daughters. I honestly have to say that I really like being married.




Now, ask that same question to him and who knows what his answer will be.


:insane: <--------probably this since he lives in a house with 4 females..

I with you.
Getting married and having kids was the best thing that ever happened to me.
The three most precious people in my life are my wife and two boys. Sometimes I wonder where I would be if I hadn't met the greatest addition to my life, my wife. Being married has given my life new meaning and a fulfillment that I had never experienced before. Waking up every morning to three beautiful happy people that love you and admire you ,more than life, is just magical.

They are my inspiration in everything I do in my life.

Before I was married my life seemed to lack purpose. I didn't have any goals. I didn't have any college degrees. I was actually almost ready to fail out of college. I was on academic probation and barely had a 1.0 GPA. Since getting married I have completed 2 undergraduate degrees and brought my final undergraduate GPA from a 1.0 to a 3.0. Now I'm in my final semester of a masters program in computer science where I have a GPA of a 4.0.. I plan to enroll in a PHD program this fall.

I feel all this inspiration to excel and to be successful was a result from my marriage and the addition of kids. Having people around me that care for me, believe in me, and trust in me, and being able to share those same qualities with them has gave my life new meaning and purpose that I had never experienced. I want to succeed to for them.

It's a great feeling having a family, where you do and experience everything as a whole. The experience of watching the kids take thier first steps, to saying thier first words, to watching them score thier first goal, to seeing them thier face light with a smile just because you are in thier presence is a feeling thats unmatched.

Ya, the potential may had been there for me to excel in school and life in general if I would applied myself. But something was missing from my life and I simply lack the desire and inspiration. What was missing was my own family.

I would like to thank my wife for supporting me, believing in me, inspiring me and loving me. I couldn't imagine my life without you and the kids. You have, along with the kids have helped make my dreams become a reality.

You are a unique, smart, intelligent, beautiful and caring
women and one hell of a mom to boot. Any man would have been fortunate to marry a women like you.

[thetribe]

I will get married eventually. I want to know that I am making the right decision when it comes that time so I want to face everything possible and learn all about them before I commit myself fully. I am very excited about the thought and although it will be a few years, I could see myself doing it. I will be engaged and stuff for a while before anything major happens. I'm still very young and have alot of life left to experience.

[Beef]

I want to one day :thumb:

[BFritz]

I want to one day :thumb:

I don't know, I love having fun, not having to answer to anyone and not worried about hurting anyone, and not worried about what I can and can't do

[Cali]

Aww QQ that was precious. Now I think that it is possible to find someone that can make life seem that amazing. Maybe one day I'll get married, hell - I just want to be with someone who makes me happy and loves me as much as I love them...I've yet to find that, but I'm a young'en.

[PvilleCheerAlum]

jury is still out on me. i have been taking a family studies class this semester and each day they make it look less and less appealing. if i do get married, i want it to be at least after i have accomplished all my career goals.

[KentuckyHillBilly5321]

jury is still out on me. i have been taking a family studies class this semester and each day they make it look less and less appealing. if i do get married, i want it to be at least after i have accomplished all my career goals.

Interesting.

According to QQ--being married has helped him reach his career goals a little earlier (or at least--has helped to accomplish a lot of things that he was not real sure he would have been able to accomplish).

Besides PkvllChrAlm--I have a feeling that some guy isn't going to let you stay on the market that long . . . . . . .

[DTfan]

I have already found someone who has helped me in so many ways nad gave me alot of inspiration. My G.P.A when I met them was like a 2.9 and no matter how hard I tried I coulkd'nt get over a 3.0 but since I have met them my G.P.A had went up to a 3.7 or higher and I actually feel like I should get out of bed everyday. Of course I'm still very young, a senior in high school to be exact but I have never in my life met anyone that made me feel the way this person does. They are not only my significant other but my best friend in the entire world. As far as marriage goes...yeah I'd LOVE to get married to them...they are the only person that I have ever felt like I could put trust in 100% and not get hurt and they are also there for me whenever I need them. When I have a bad day and I'm not in a good mood, they understand and try to help me get in a better mood instead of getting pissed off at me like alot of people do.

[BlueGrassGirl]

I with you.
Getting married and having kids was the best thing that ever happened to me.
The three most precious people in my life are my wife and two boys. Sometimes I wonder where I would be if I hadn't met the greatest addition to my life, my wife. Being married has given my life new meaning and a fulfillment that I had never experienced before. Waking up every morning to three beautiful happy people that love you and admire you ,more than life, is just magical.

They are my inspiration in everything I do in my life.

Before I was married my life seemed to lack purpose. I didn't have any goals. I didn't have any college degrees. I was actually almost ready to fail out of college. I was on academic probation and barely had a 1.0 GPA. Since getting married I have completed 2 undergraduate degrees and brought my final undergraduate GPA from a 1.0 to a 3.0. Now I'm in my final semester of a masters program in computer science where I have a GPA of a 4.0.. I plan to enroll in a PHD program this fall.

I feel all this inspiration to excel and to be successful was a result from my marriage and the addition of kids. Having people around me that care for me, believe in me, and trust in me, and being able to share those same qualities with them has gave my life new meaning and purpose that I had never experienced. I want to succeed to for them.

It's a great feeling having a family, where you do and experience everything as a whole. The experience of watching the kids take thier first steps, to saying thier first words, to watching them score thier first goal, to seeing them thier face light with a smile just because you are in thier presence is a feeling thats unmatched.

Ya, the potential may had been there for me to excel in school and life in general if I would applied myself. But something was missing from my life and I simply lack the desire and inspiration. What was missing was my own family.

I would like to thank my wife for supporting me, believing in me, inspiring me and loving me. I couldn't imagine my life without you and the kids. You have, along with the kids have helped make my dreams become a reality.

You are a unique, smart, intelligent, beautiful and caring
women and one hell of a mom to boot. Any man would have been fortunate to marry a women like you.

Wow..I don't know what to say..other than I love you and I'm so thankful to have you in my life. I couldn't imagine not being married to you... I truly enjoy the relationship and the life we have together with our 2 precious baby boys...


A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966

[BlueGrassGirl]

Interesting.

According to QQ--being married has helped him reach his career goals a little earlier (or at least--has helped to accomplish a lot of things that he was not real sure he would have been able to accomplish).

Besides PkvllChrAlm--I have a feeling that some guy isn't going to let you stay on the market that long . . . . . . .

I dont' think QQ's main focus was about career goals. It was about giving his life real purpose...We've both talked about this endlessly and we both feel the same.

I think getting married then having children finally makes you realize what is really the most important thing in life.

UKgirl...what does your family studies course teach? I'm sure it makes marriage out to be a lot of work & compromise...and all I can say is that is...

KHB, what are your concerns with marriage? What makes you say that you have to be "out of your mind" to be married or to want to get married? lol...

[thetribe]

Part of me is saying not to get married until I travel, get my dream job, and build the life for myself that I have always wanted. Another part of me is telling me that being married to the one that I love will motivate me more and more to follow my dreams and work hard to make OUR lives together perfect.

[PC_U_KNOW_98]

I want to get married. I hope to be married within the next 4-5 years and have a kid within the same time frame.

[Doc Holliday]

Personally i would never recommend my way of achieving what I have.
Wasted part of my looking for what I thought was one. then finding out she was everyone's one! So I went thru the D and it was the most difficult thing I could have imagined but my life is fuller now then ever before. Oh it's far from perfect but it made me aware of how important each moment that we have on this big blue marble really is.
It has made me aware of what the world and life has to offer, I have traveled around the world seen sites I didn't or wouldn't have beleived were possible or even existed.

You should never rush it.................
but yuo should never settle............
Your right time is your right time, dont confuse it with others right time

I have seen people say that they were never complete until married and with some people I agree I was never complete until divorced.

Life and love is what you make out of it.
Peace out Doc

[KentuckyHillBilly5321]

With my wife standing over my shoulder (to prove who is boss--because she has found this website)

I LOVE MY WIFE--AND I AM HAPPY THAT WE ARE MARRIED!!!!!

[thetribe]

KH is now whipped.

[BlueGrassGirl]

With my wife standing over my shoulder (to prove who is boss--because she has found this website)

I LOVE MY WIFE--AND I AM HAPPY THAT WE ARE MARRIED!!!!!

lol...that's cute! I'm glad you've realized that you are happily married...

[J. R. VanHoose]

I am happy being with my wife. We are really wanting to start a family soon!!

[thetribe]

Good luck J.R. :Thumbs:

[crazytaxidriver]

Can't wait to get married.. just a few months awa